BEITI AZEEM BE H AUR REHMAT BE H

                          BEITI  AZEEM  BE H AUR REHMAT BE H

• Aj kay nafsa nafasi kay mushera ma ager pesti chali ja rahe h tu faqat ak aurat h.
• Ager beti h tu waldain paryshan h k us ki shahdi kasay karay aur kahain se paisa layain.
• Ager baho h tu sayas bolay deti h k wo be kabi baho thi. 
• ager maa h tu ulad nafrmani kar k us ka kaleja cheer rehe h.
• Ager behan h tu bahi jaydat se aak kar detay h.
• Ager bewi h tu us ki khdimat karney wale ko jaro ka ghulam kaha jata h.
• Kia deen islam us shafiq nabi ki seerat ko anpnaney ka nam nehi.
• Ki ye sab nabi k ghar hota tha.
• Yaqeenan nehi lahaza aurat ka muqam samjay aur muqam day.

Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W) ne farmaya:-

• Aurat k liy ye bohat he mubarik h k us ki paheli ulad betti ho.
• Jis shahksh ki baeitian ho us ko bura mat samjo is liy k me be baeiti ka bap ho.
• Jab koi baeiti payada hoti h tu Allah Tala farmata h kay "Aye larki tu zameen par utar me teray bap ki amdad karo gay".

• Jab Allah Tala Khush hota h tu zameen par baeiti payada kartay h.
• Baeti ki zat muqadas na hoti tu Allah Humaray Aqa ko kabi ulad ka silsala Hazrat Fatima se suro na karta
• Waldain betti ko beta kah kar pukartay h mager beta ko baeti kah kar nehi pukara jata.
• Baeitian khas hoti h waqat anay par wo beta ban kar be dekhati h aur beto ka kardar be bakhubi nabahti h kabi waldain ki azat ki khatar anay me anso gondti h tu kabi ghar ki baqa k liy murd k shana bashna chalti h "bay shak Allah ki Rehmat me un ki na qadri na karay.

Hazrat Abu Saad kadari se Rayawat h k Hazoor (S.A.W.W) ne farmaya:-

Jis banday ne 03 bettio , ya 03 behno , ya 02 bettio aur 02 behno ka bhar uthia un ki achi tarbiyat ki aur un k saith acha salook kia aur phir un ka nikha be kar dia aur Allah Tala ki taraf se us banday k liy jannat ka faisala h.

Baeitian sab kay naseeb me kaha hoti h jo ghar Allah ko pasand a jay waha hoti h.

• Ulad k liy ghar kuch lao tu pehle beti ko do phir betay ko do.
• Baeiti ki parvarsh jannt ki zaman h.
• Baeiti rehmat ka darwaza h.
• Baeiti bakhshsh ka zaria h.
• Baeiti jahanum ki dhal h.

Baeiti se payar nehi kia jata bulkay  beti par kud payar a jata h.

           "Zarori nehi rooshnian charago se ho"

        "Baeitian be ghar me ujala karti h"

    "Bap ak asa shajar h jis k sayae me bettian raj        karti h"

     "Ye mushqal asan hoti h jab tak pass hoti h"

Beto k liya bohat bardasat karany parta h leyken log Baeitian bardasat nehi kartay.

Baeiti ka bap k saith zayada payar hota maa ki nisbat. Jab bap dunya se chala jay tu beti ki dunya he ujar jati h. Jtni be us ki umar ho gi wo bap ki yad me roh roh kay guzar deti h.

Bap ka janza ghar mujod hota betay jaydat k baray sochna suro kar detay h beti apne bap k gum me pagal ho choki hoti h us ka jaydat k saith koi talaq he hota. Us ki tu dunya ujar choki hoti h.

Wo ghar jis kay saith us ka payar tha wo us k liy jahanum ban jata ku k bahi aur babi bap k bad dekhay mar kar usi gahr se nakal detay h jis me us ne apna bachpan apne maa aur bap kay saith gujzara hota h.

Maa bap apni betio ko kabi booj na samjay un kay saith payar karay ku k ye ap k ghar ki rehmat h, rehmat ki qadar karay.

Maa bap dunya se chale janey k bad bahio ko apni behno kay saith acha salook karna chahie. Agar behan badua day to znadgai me kabi sakoon nehi ho ga.

Aj hum ahed kartay h k maa bap be betio ko booj na samjay aur na he bahi un kay saith bura salook karay.

                      

             WRITTEN BY : MUHAMMAD SHAFIQUE ATTARI